judging or just making a comment?

Just got back from Buka bersama in Sister Lenny's house. but too bad my cousin, Fara felt a sick. She was puking all over the room. but she's getting better now.

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and Oh, I drove and reached the speed 130 km/hour. Lucky me, My grandma didn't complain about it at all. *nenek gw emang funky* huehehe..

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My lesbians Gena and Marini (we known as lesbians in campus, anyway. :p ) phoned me. asking me where I was, and where I wanted to go after diner. but I don't feel like going anywhere and blending my self to the crowd out there for tonight.. I just wanna at home. Lying in my comfy bed and spending my time alone. No.. I am not depressed or sedang putus cinta or something that falls me into that 'pathetic category'. I just wanna like this. Occay!

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Fikri just texted and told me that he's in Jambi right now. hmm.. I miss him .*'(

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I can't believe which started out as sounding so right could be so wrong. Maybe It's just typical of life to let me learn kan? it's been a long time since I felt REALLY disappointed and annoyed about something by someone. I call her as my VUP (Very Unimportant Person).but being emotional person I am. It's been the center of my thoughts and a lot of times, the main topic of my entries.was Ok then. I just felt sorry for this pathetic chick who thinks she's the one who's right and smart.

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and oh, I often hear people saying "don't judge people what people do." or "don't judge people based on your values."

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the question is. "What is the differences between judgement and comment?"

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When you say. " they are look like a sick couple",or " they use their make up too thick and makes them look so old." or " her skirt too short and doesn't suit with her." or even worse. When you say these things. I know that you don't mean to think negatively or criticise. But unconsiously these things came into ur mind because you are silently judging others. I know you'll deny it. That you're not judging them. but you're just making a comment. isn't that another form of judgment?? LOL. I think there's no wrong in judging if u learn from the judgment you made.right?

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So.. don't ask people not to judge you. simply because they have their own right to judge you based on their values.